You would probably prefer a light moisturiser over a heavy cream or oil. I’ve found many of the Nivea body lotions very light and fast absorbing

I use Nivea cream or lotion and find that it sinks in and doesn’t leave your skin feeling gross. Maybe you’re using too much. You just need to moisturise and do it straight after your shower as your pores are open then. So, I suggest you might try a lotion instead of a cream as it’s much lighter in quality. Just don’t smother yourself with it. Less is best. But do keep moisturising, don’t stop.

Not really. If its something you dont enjoy then I guess its best just to not worry about it.
You could perhaps apply lotion before bed and wash it off in the morning before you start your day.