I know the pain and to be honest I’ve noticed it on lots of people aswell. I think the only safe option is to either A. Wear very minimal foundation in that area, just a light blend to match the rest of your face or b. Wait until your foundation has really set into place and use a setting spray. Lift your glasses off your nose occasionally throughout the day to just give your nose a break

Unfortunately I’ve never found the solution to this either. I try to wear a little less make up in the areas glasses will sit and carry powder with me. Setting spray can help, but I think the friction will always show some wear

I wear glasses for reading and always have a pair of sunglasses on when outside or travelling in a vechicle which is often as I work with special needs children on a school bus.
I cant say that I have solved this issue totally but I do think that using a good primer helps and then a setting powder afterwards. I do carry blotting papers with me and use them to soak up extra oil during the day. I live in Queensland and it gets super hot so carrying blotting paper with me is a must.